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Hope & Plum meh dai
The Hope & Plum meh dai is a versatile baby carrier designed for comfort and support, suitable for various carrying positions. It features adjustable straps for weight distribution and is made from soft, breathable fabric.
Pros (+)
- Comfortable and supportive for extended wear
- Adjustable straps for personalized fit
- Stylish design that parents appreciate
Cons (−)
- May not be used frequently as child grows
- Some parents find it less practical for older toddlers
- Limited lifespan for larger children
Why parents like it
Parents praise the adjustable straps that allow for personalized weight distribution, making it comfortable for extended wear. The design is also noted for its aesthetic appeal, adding a touch of style while carrying their little one.
Common complaints
Some parents mention that their child outgrew the carrier quickly, limiting its usability. A few others report that they don't use it as often as expected, indicating it may not suit every family's needs.
Parents looking for a comfortable and pretty carrier for younger infants. The tradeoff is that it may not be as useful for older toddlers who quickly outgrow it.
The Hope & Plum meh dai is a great option for those who prioritize comfort and aesthetics, but it may not be the best fit for families with older toddlers.
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Thread: "Hope & Plum Meh Dai"
I really really love the hope&plum meh dai. I used it all of the way until my son physically outgrew it at like 40 inches tall & 45lbs. I actually ended up with two of them because I needed one while the other one was in the wash. The weight distribution is so good, and the hemp blend really is fantastic for newborns and toddlers. There are fantastic secondhand deals on them on the Facebook resale pages! One note- if you get one, schedule a fit check with them in advance. I for real almost returned mine because I was frustrated for the first day or two until it finally clicked and wish I just had a fit check on the calendar for when it came in.
Thread: "Hope & Plum Meh Dai"
Maybe unpopular: I have it and never use it. We wear a lot and my LO is 17mo. I feel like the waistband has to be pretty tight and that isn’t comfortable. It’s hard to get as much of the slack out as I think I need to in the wrap part. Fabric is great, agree there. Between a SB onbuhimo, Wildbird Aerial, woven, ring sling, and an ergo embrace, the HP meh dai… it’s the last one I pick and I just couldn’t ever get into it. Our top two are the onbuhimo and wildbird aerial.
Thread: "Hope & Plum Meh Dai"
I agree with the other commenter on scheduling a fit check! They even do free fit checks when you buy a used one and the Facebook BST groups are great for hunting for quality used ones! I have the Lark, several H&P ring slings, and the meh dai and they all serve different purposes imo. Ring slings, once mastered, are so fast and perfect for grocery shopping or anything short and sweet. My LO loves sleeping in their ring slings but after an hour it starts to annoy my back. This is where the meh dai shines. It has a steeper learning curve and after a few times, I almost gave up. But one time I got it just right and LO felt almost weightless—amazing! I still do not get it right every time and should probably get a fit check on the calendar to troubleshoot. Now where the Lark comes in handy is for longer outings like hikes or walks where it’s too long for a ring sling but you’re outside and it’s tricky to wrap a meh dai without getting the straps dirty. I have the short length and still the straps are soooooo long. I’ve heard that some people get really good at tucking the straps in their waistband as they wrap but I honestly cannot figure that out and my straps touch the floor a lot as I wrap. Hope that helps!
Thread: "Anyone know of a solution for back pain while wearing?"
I had a lot of lower back pain when I tried the popular baby carriers that it seemed everyone recommended. The ones I tried were: Ergo Original, Ergo Embrace, Ergo Omni, Beco Gemini, and the TushBaby. What all of these have in common is a thick belt that you clip around your waist… The winner for me was a meh dai. I tried the DidyTai first but found the Lenny Lamb Wrap Tai and Hope & Plum meh dai also comfy. I think this style works because you distribute the weight over more of your body. Since then I have also tried a onbuhimo (neither me nor my toddler enjoyed) and a woven. The woven is super comfy! I also tried a ring sling in the early days and that worked decently well but my baby didn’t love it. So I’d recommend trying a meh dai, woven, or ring sling. I joined the Little Zen One program to try the Lenny Lamb Wraptai because I had wasted sooo much money on carriers that didn’t work. Definitely worth it if you live in the US or CA!
Thread: "Does it exist? Light carrier for summer heat but also has good lumbar support."
I live in a very hot climate and find my hope & plum meh dai an excellent weight for that. It’s also super supportive and comfortable and very adjustable for your preferences of weight distribution. I can wear baby for hours on a hot day and we both stay comfortable.
Thread: "Hope & Plum Meh Dai"
If you want a meh dai but don't want to shell out for hope and plum, Lenny Lamb makes a nice one that can be pretty inexpensive depending on the fabric. If you're still able to use the embrace, you're probably a ways out from back wearing but a meh dai is fantastic for back wearing.
Thread: "Hope & Plum Meh Dai"
I love my hope and plum meh dai! It’s so so pretty and I just feel so happy when I wear my son in it. It’s super duper comfy. The only thing is I definitely should have gotten the short size and not the long size, so my straps are unwieldy. I think I’m going to hem them down to the size of the short length straps. But other than that, love! Could I have gotten a much cheaper meh dai or a half buckle somewhere else? Sure. But I love the one I got and I use it all the time so I’m very happy with my purchase.